Now,lets talk about teenage pregnancy. Why this topic? Because I think it is a need for me to say that there has been a shocking uprising in teenage pregnancy. Well I came home and I saw a certain post and painfully I agree with it. A man stated that he pity teenagers with kids and is intrigued why someone who is so young and pristine put their life in jeopardy. Raising a child isn't easy....I just cut his sentences short because I find it too long. And then somehow your typical "Minah" came along and commented on it. Obviously the man replied in a very sensible manner and explained his judgement. The "Minah" did not reply and ended up ranting on her facebook. Of course,with minahs...there is certainly alot of friends who would agree to her redundant rants. This in my opinion is uncalled for,furthermore to those who supported this "minah" I can assure you that your head is as bleak as a blue cheese. I thought to myself,how childish can she be? She said that the man was being childish and that some people lack of family love and such...to the extent she said that she really love her son. Reality check dear "Minah" please look at yourself...You already have a son yet,you still club,drink and smoke...Worse,you still "Lepak" with your so called kaki gereks and etc. And before I continue judging I took the fact about "You'll be in my shoes while I'll be in yours. So that we can understand each other better."
I've seen younger mothers more responsible than you,they continue to school to increase their education. Find jobs and stopped their old habits. So I ask,if they can,why can't you? I as a guy think that you aren't a responsible mother,and this love you speak of,by smoking in front of your child? Leaving your child with your parents so that you can go clubbing? Preposterous! You are your own contradiction madame. Have you ever thought what if your child would ask "Mum,why do you smoke? Club?" Have you ever thought of that? Have you ever thought that your child might make the same mistakes as yours?"
I respect the fact that you didn't chose abortion and gave birth. To that I salute,but like what the man said....I don't think you are fully mentally prepared..... So I ask,drop your ego and face the fact that you indeed screwed up in the past but you can make a brighter future....You only think so far,think further please....It aches my heart to see my own race is causing so much problems and being looked down upon. All I ask is that you should think not just twice but thrice before doing an action.
And to those out there who thinks that I'm being unreasonable then I'm sorry. You just have to tolerate the harsh painful reality we are all living in.
I would also like to stress on teenagers that sex can wait after marriage.... and if you are still stubborn at least use contraceptive methods. Before doing it I will ask....What if you have a baby? Are you mentally prepared? Can you support your own child? Do you think you can handle the criticism? Most importantly will you change for the better for your child?
That is all,so this is more of a rant/advice post and yeah,I'll do this once in awhile if I find it necessary.
Anyway,the picture was taken at home with indoor flash and reflectors.
and with that I bid everyone goodnight~